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Sunday, August 1, 2010

Allow Time for Children

Entering the modern era, filled with sophisticated technology, especially in the field of information, making them more vulnerable position of children become victims of violence. Social networking through the internet such as "perpetrators of violence" that could threaten the new child. The reason more and more children and adolescents who are victims of cyber-bullying. Concern was described in which the renowned psychologist based on the results of research data on a small scale, found that 29 of the 97 children had experienced cyber-bullying. "The shape ridicule, harsh words insulting, and embarrassing, this should be aware because the perpetrator does not appear, one's identity when chatting is usually disguised" (research results). Violence cases through the Internet is causing psychological injury, such as depression, can not get along, and could not speak. Even in the United States and Korea, there are teen suicides caused by cyber bullying. "Because the victims all over the world know about it due to the internet. 

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The threat of violence is through the Internet increasingly threatened as more widespread use of mobile phones on children. In fact, children are increasingly lured to use social networks on the Internet through advertising - advertising in the media. To anticipate cyber-bullying the parents should have to give a true understanding of the use of technology as well as limit what should and should not be viewed on the internet. In addition, children should also be encouraged to move the "traditional", such as swimming, playing ball, or other physical activities. "Parents should be able to make other activities more pleasant and healthy," says the psychologist. But recognized that it is difficult for parents to monitor all activities of the child when outside of the house. For that parents must frequently communicate and dialogue with children in a way that is not authoritarian. "Let the children to think critically and used to express feelings and thoughts" are firmly psychologist.

Similar other psychologists mentioned in which parents should be concerned with communication to the child, therefore, any busy parent activities, they must take the time to children and not let his son face the problem alone. "When parents see for example the child who should not be viewed in the media like TV or the internet, do not directly scold give him a feeling of understanding and see him," the psychologist said. If parents can not spare the time for children, children in the fear will run for a place, others in her family or other activities that could be very bad influence on children. This has not yet touched on violence in games-games that many in the consumption of children with long duration - hours. Some games involve violence, such as wounding is either living or dead creatures that exist on the monitor screen.